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Survivors of Suicide

Helping those who have lost a loved one to suicide.

Please know YOU are not alone

There are many of us reeling from the effects of the death of someone we loved by suicide

Peter Warshaw

Group Leader

Peter's experience with suicide began in 1988 with the loss of one of his students. In 2006, he lost his wife, Dr. Lara Barnett, to depression. Since then, Peter has dedicated himself to helping fellow survivors navigate their difficult journey through the Austin Survivors of Suicide support group.

petwar1@yahoo.com

Meetings

Virtual Meetings

Austin SOS is hosting virtual meetings on the first and third Tuesday of every month, from 6:30 to 8 pm.

Join via Zoom

Meeting ID: 873 2867 4050

Passcode: SOS

If you have lost someone to suicide, I invite you to join me and my fellow survivors to help you navigate your difficult journey. Every one of our members is a Survivor, and our mission is to help those who are recovering from a loss by suicide.

— Peter Warshaw

What Happens at a Meeting

When you arrive at a meeting you will be greeted by members, some old members and many new like you. We all sit around a table and do an introduction. We tell who we are, who we lost, how we lost them and when the death took place.

We usually talk about what is going on in our lives and how we are handling our grief. Some are far along the road of healing and that gives the new people "HOPE" that someday there will be good times again.

New members are allowed to tell their story if they want to and get the pain out. But if you choose not to speak that is ok as well. Sometimes there are tears but that is normal. You will find love and comfort like none that can be given to you anywhere else because unless you know the pain of suicide you do not truly understand it.

Survivor Blog

Stories, poems, and resources shared by our community of survivors

Oct 4, 2020

Peter's Poems

Zebras and Horses — I am a survivor of suicide, a zebra among horses; distinct from those who have not suffered the loss by suicide of a loved one or dear friend.

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Oct 4, 2020

Closure by Kevin Caruso

Suicide Survivors: There is no Closure After a Suicide — Focus on healing, celebrating the life of your suicide angel, and helping others who are in pain.

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Oct 4, 2020

SOS Manifesto

I will not get over this regardless of how much time has passed. There is a wound in my heart that will never heal.

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Apr 24, 2018

Time to Breathe

Take your time, breathe, walk in the sunshine, go eat ice cream and concentrate on small things.

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Nov 17, 2017

Survivors Day Information

Survivor Day is the one day a year when people affected by suicide loss gather around the world at events in their local communities.

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Sep 21, 2017

Facts and Figures

Suicide claims more lives than war, murder, and natural disasters combined.

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Oct 4, 2020

Peter's Pick for Comfort

A Solitary Journey — Grief is a solitary journey. No one but you knows how great the hurt is.

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Oct 4, 2020

Reading List

These are books that helped us with short reviews — resources for survivors of suicide loss.

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Feb 7, 2019

Peter Warshaw

My experience with suicide began in 1988 with the loss of one of my students who was suffering from depression and anorexia.

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Jan 31, 2018

Great Books For Recent Loss

Dr. Mark Goulston: PTSD for Dummies — Don't be misled by the title! Loss by suicide can be a traumatic loss.

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Nov 11, 2017

Help Our Vets

22 Veterans die by suicide each day. Let's stop it!

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Sep 12, 2017

Thoughts From A Survivor

This month my son Ryan has been gone for 12 years. In many ways it's like yesterday and other ways it seems so long ago.

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Oct 4, 2020

Glossary of Suicide Terminology

A comprehensive glossary of terms related to suicide, grief, and mental health.

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Oct 4, 2020

Advice For Recent Loss

To The Newly Bereaved After Suicide — By LaRita Archibald, Founder of HEARTBEAT groups for mutual support.

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Jun 5, 2018

Kate Spade's Suicide

The afternoon after I buried my son when he died by suicide with a gun I went to his home and found a plethora of medications.

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Jan 27, 2018

Survivor Guilt

Guilt is your worst enemy, because it is a false accusation. You are not responsible for your loved one's suicide.

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Nov 6, 2017

Take Care Of Yourself First

Remember to take care of yourself first — you cannot help others if you are not well yourself.

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Jul 28, 2017

Want to Post Something?

I'll be happy to post anything you find that has been useful on your path of healing.

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Get in Touch

Please know YOU are not alone. There are many of us reeling from the effects of the death of someone we loved by suicide.